Recently, during a presentation at my office, a colleague presented a beautiful array of architectural styles from different states in India. Towards the end, she posed a simple yet profound question: “What is home to you?” The responses that followed were incredibly varied and insightful, each reflecting the unique experiences and values of the individuals in the room.

One person said that home is “a good weave of light, shadow, and darkness on every level of being.” This struck me deeply as an architect because it acknowledged the interplay between the physical space and the intangible aspects of existence—emotional, mental, and psychological. As architects, we often think about how light enters a space or how shadows move throughout the day, but this comment reminded me that these elements affect us not just visually but emotionally and spiritually as well.

Another colleague described home as “a space for grounding” for her and her children. For her, home is where she can anchor herself and her family, a place of stability amidst life’s constant change. It reminded me of how architecture is not just about creating beautiful spaces, but about making spaces that support human lives and relationships. For this person, home was not just walls and a roof; it was a foundation for her identity and her family’s sense of belonging.

One of the responses that stood out to me was from someone who said that home is where she feels safe and at peace on all levels. It was a reminder that a home’s most essential function is to provide safety and comfort, not just physically but emotionally and mentally. The design of a home must consider these aspects to truly serve its inhabitants. In a world full of external stressors, home becomes a sanctuary—a place where people can retreat to, feeling completely themselves.

Another colleague added an interesting perspective, describing home as “a balanced weave of public and private spaces with a mix of chaos and calm.” This statement resonated with me, especially as an architect who constantly tries to balance the flow between shared, open spaces and more intimate, private areas. For her, home was a microcosm of life itself—full of both vibrancy and tranquillity, where the chaos of daily life could coexist with moments of calm reflection. This delicate balance is crucial in designing spaces that can adapt to both the social and solitary needs of those who live there.

Hearing all these different answers made me realize how deeply personal the concept of home is. As an architect, I have to ensure I fully understand what “home” means to my clients. It is easy to get caught up in aesthetic preferences, design trends, and functionality, but the emotional core of what makes a house a home often lies in the stories, needs, and aspirations of the people who will inhabit it.

Ultimately, home is more than just a physical structure; it’s a reflection of our inner worlds, our needs, and our dreams. The way we design these spaces should honour that personal journey. Whether it’s the play of light and shadow, the sense of grounding, or the need for balance between chaos and calm, each home tells a unique story, and as architects, we are fortunate to help narrate it.